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| Seconds after. T-Shirts were quickly available in China bearing this emblem. |
| Ardent admirer. |
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| Mystifying. |
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| Don Junior toes the line. |
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| Mark Watts' cartoon in New Statesman Stallard article. |
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| Seconds after. T-Shirts were quickly available in China bearing this emblem. |
| Ardent admirer. |
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| Mystifying. |
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| Don Junior toes the line. |
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| Mark Watts' cartoon in New Statesman Stallard article. |
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| John Williams at work on his current masterpiece |
| Photo taken in early March as the carving begins to emerge. |
Since then I have checked, several times a week, to marvel at the emerging carving, as fluidity and form grew from solid, static wood. I love wood in all its many forms and adaptations so here was a wonderful opportunity to watch the magic of a wood carving taking shape. I think it is now finished [July 18]; the protective railings have been removed, the awning has gone and much of the surplus slivers and slices from the carving, swept away. The carving itself is a celebration of Suffolk’s county flower, the Oxlip, a cousin I think to the cowslip though rather more aristocratic and certainly rare outside Suffolk. In fact the Oxlip is classed as near-threatened in Britain, and is rarely found outside of Suffolk, Cambridgeshire and Essex.
| The Oxlip growing from the cherry tree stump |
The wood sculptor is 83 year old John Williams and his current design includes the profile of a Green Man, an environmental guardian, presenting the Oxlip in cupped hands in a nod to Nathaniel Hudson who, in 1831, founded Bury’s Botanic Gardens, now known as the Abbey Gardens. This award-winning 14 acre park is on the site of a former Benedictine Abbey, once a power house of mediaeval England. The many beautiful Abbey ruins scattered in areas of the park are around 1000 years old so these two hundred year old gardens are set in a truly ancient landscape.
Mr Williams, who has been practising wood carving for a mere ten years, says: “I first came to the Abbey Gardens when I was eight years old and I really love the place. It is absolutely crucial to Bury. So the fact that I’m contributing something to a place I enjoy and appreciate is amazing and gives me a really lovely feeling.”
John Williams also
produced a widely-admired wood sculpture in 2021 as
part of the celebrations to mark the 1000 years of the Abbey of St
Edmunds in Bury St Edmunds. It shows a variety of mediaeval pilgrims
who came, through the centuries, to visit the shrine of St Edmund in
the Abbey. John carved that sculpture [from pine donated by Nowton
Park] in the Gardens
opposite the Aviary, during six months of the Covid pandemic watched
by many lone passers-by!
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| Nearly there! Early July, finishing to coincide with Bury in Bloom. |
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| Mediaeval Pilgrims' carving 2021 |
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The Pilgrims’ sculpture reflected the contours of the ruins around it, particularly apt when the finished article was displayed on a plinth in the crypt of the ruins of the Abbey.
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| The Herbalist, an earlier work placed near the entrance to the herb garden in the Abbey grounds near Angel Hill. |
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| Recent shot of Gareth Southgate |
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| The divine David! |
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| Magic Marcus |
In spite of my jaundiced view of the world of football, my own family members demonstrate to me the sheer power and fascination of the Game as an example of that experienced by a large proportion of the English/ British nation. My family What’s App is emblematic of this Ingerland adoration with prolonged triumphant/dejected chat during important Euro-type activity and quotes such as, “best fucking day ever!” giving a flavour of How National Football Matters. And How Much!
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| Southgate quote. |
"I tell them [team members] when you go out there, in this shirt, you have the opportunity to produce moments that people will remember forever. … You are part of an experience that lasts in the collective consciousness of our country.”
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| Gareth with Cole Palmer of the England team. |
“You
remember where you were watching England games. And who you were
watching with. And who you were at the time."
“For me personally, my sense of identity and values is closely tied to my family and particularly my grandad. He was a fierce patriot and a proud military man who served during World War 11…. The idea of representing “Queen and country” has always been important to me.”
“I have a responsibility to the wider community to use my voice, and so do the players. It’s their duty to continue to interact with the public on matters such as equality, inclusivity, and racial injustice, while using the power of their voices to help put debates on the table, raise awareness and educate.”
“For many of that younger generation, your notion of Englishness is quite different from my own. I understand that, too. I understand that on this island, we have a desire to protect our values and traditions – as we should – but that shouldn’t come at the expense of introspection and progress.”
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| Southgate with Jadon Sancho of England. |
“Unfortunately for those people that engage in that kind of behaviour, I have some bad news. You’re on the losing side. It’s clear to me that we are heading for a much more tolerant and understanding society, and I know our lads will be a big part of that.”
There is such a personal feeling to Southgate’s letter; he has clearly thought through his own philosophy. Here are his dearly-held opinions and feelings and he is really telling us his story from humble beginnings to reflective father-figure and national football manager who cares deeply about ‘his lads’, his patriotism and values, his standards and honesty. From this letter, we know he is a man proud to represent his country and our country. There is so much about Gareth’s character, capabilities and example one might extol, but a quote from Chief Rabbi Sir Ephraim Mirvis on X seems to sum up his achievements rather well:
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| Prince William paying tribute as Gareth dutifully clasps his hands in thanks. |
***In Yiddish, mensch means 'a good person.' The word has become part of American English where it signifies a particularly good person, a person with the qualities one would hope for in a friend or trusted colleague. A person of honour and integrity.
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| Farewell Ingerland |
Perhaps being old is having lighted rooms
Inside your head, and people in them, acting.
People you know yet can’t quite name; each looms
Like a deep loss restored, from known doors turning,
Setting down a lamp, smiling from a stair, extracting
A known book from the shelves; or sometimes only
The rooms themselves, chairs and a fire burning,
The blown bush at the window, or the sun’s
Faint friendliness on the wall some lonely
Rain-ceased midsummer evening. That is where they live:
Not here and now, but where all happened once.
Extract from
The Old Fools
Philip Larkin
Although Larkin in his typically sardonic way, refers contemptuously to old age as “the whole hideous inverted childhood”, one he was yet to experience himself when he was composing his rather cruel observations, I am experiencing a much more tolerable rounding off of a life while acknowledging the
familiarity of the above stanza. It is true now that I experience flashes of images of childhood, often remembering more of the sunlit days than the darker greys of anxiety with a parent. I remember now, unbidden, snatches of conversations, glimpses of interactions long forgotten, reactions to domestic events and almost-submerged earlier fears and hopes. I sometimes catch inner sight of previously known neighbours, friends, teachers, people whom I can’t quite name now but did know once.![]() |
| My sister and I visiting the wood where we had played as girls. 2017. |
Attitudes to events, anniversaries, celebrations are often coloured and shaped by the view the individual has to a particular occurrence before or after it has occurred. A growing body of research suggests, for instance, that a person's mindset -- how they feel about growing old --may predict how much longer and how well they live. Several studies over the past 20 years suggest people with more positive viewson ageing, live longer, healthier lives than those with negative perceptions of the ageing process. Recently, a large nationwide study of nearly 14,000 adults over the age of 50 took an even deeper look into the ways in which positive thinking about ageing could impact a person's physical health, health behaviours and psychological well-being.
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| Age 82 |
1. Maintain
a sense of purpose
"Some people aren't sure what to do with themselves after they retire", said Kim. He suggests finding projects that align with a person's values. "If family is a high priority, find things to do that contribute to the family, such as helping to care for grandchildren. If conservation is a strong value, find projects that
contribute to the health of the environment. Volunteer work is a great way to do this," he said.2. Recognize negative messages about ageing. Research shows negative stereotypes about ageing are internalized over a person's life span and can harm physical and cognitive health as a person grows older. "Develop an awareness of these messages," suggests Giasson. " Understand how they influence us." For example, a person may believe poor physical health is inevitable for older adults so there is no use in trying to stay active. But according to the National Institute on Ageing, exercise can lower the risk for cardiovascular disease, high blood pressure and Type 2 diabetes. and can improve sleep and reduce the risk of falls. "Recognise that practising healthy behaviours can support health at any age," Giasson says.
3. Stay socially active.
| All, including camera-woman, born in 1934 and celebrating that fact in 2016 |
As people age, they may lose loved ones such as spouses, family members or friends. If a spouse was responsible for maintaining social networks and that person dies, the remaining spouse may grow lonely and more socially isolated. Social isolation and loneliness are risk factors for poor physical and mentalhealth, increasing the risk for heart attacks and strokes and contributing to poor life satisfaction,
depression, low self-esteem and difficulty with daily life activities. But research shows maintaining social connections can have a positive effect on health. Kim said it's important to make new connections to replace those you've lost. "What typically happens is people stop making new friends. Re-engage mechanisms for meeting people that were there earlier in life," he advises, such as joining a club or taking part in community organizations.4. Try something new
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| I was introduced to Mah Jong when I was 81. it continues to provide pleasure, intellectual activity and regular social contact. |
Although this blog began with my meandering thoughts on ageing as I near my 90th, it developed into a mini-manual on research findings to cheer up the ageing! So, to finish, another quote, but this time from a super little book given to me by a friend in Bruges; its sub-title is Lyrics and Legends of the American Indian and its title comes from the last two lines of the quote below, taken from the wisdom of a Navajo Benedictory Chant:
Beauty is before me
And beauty behind me,
Above and below me hovers the beautiful,
I am surrounded by it,
I am immersed in it.
In my youth I am aware of it
And in old age
I shall walk quietly
The beautiful trail.
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| Walk quietly the beautiful trail |
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| Navajo American Indian |
something new," she said. "It's never too late, and you're never too old to explore new interests."
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| This is the result popularly regarded as, roughly, what happens with P.R. |
The
recent British election has forcefully reminded me of how very unfair
our ‘First Past The Post’ electoral system is Indeed, "this election has thrown the spotlight on to the electoral system as the result was the most disproportional on record,” said Darren Hughes, the chief executive of the Electoral Reform Society." The Labour Party has won the election and is now in Government, with about 34%
of the vote but has 65% of the total seats. The Reform Party and the Greens, won nine seats between them (just over 1%), with a combined vote share of about 21%. Twenty-four thousand votes would get you a Labour seat; a Reform candidate would need one million; a Green, 485,000; a Conservative, 56,000. It is an interesting paradox that the Liberal Democrats, the longest-serving proponents of proportional representation, are the only party that, had it been implemented for this election, would have ended up with about the same number of seats.
I don’t begin to understand how the P.R. System actually arrives at these figures but it does seem generally Not Right or Fair! With this in mind I have searched online as to exactly what Proportional Representation actually means in practical terms. I will summarise the results of my little investigation which are altogether so much more complicated than I ever imagined!
1. First Past The Post. F.P.T.P.
Voters select preferred candidate; candidate with most votes wins. A perfect First-Past-The-Post would mean that if a Party gained 40% of the votes, it would gain 40% of the seats.
2. Alternative Vote. A.V.
3. Supplementary Vote. S.V.
Very similar to A.V. though voters are limited to a first and second preference choices.
4. Single Transferable Vote. S.T.V.
Voters rank candidates 1,2,3, etc. Voters can choose one or as many as preferred, from list. Each candidate needs to reach a quota based on minimum number of votes calculated according to the number of seats and votes cast. First preference votes are added up, with candidates achieving the quota, elected. Candidates with fewest first preference votes are eliminated and their votes reassigned to second preference indications.
5. Additional Member System. A.M.S.
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| Liberal Democrats' 2024 intake; a record number. |
I have omitted many details from each brief summary on the grounds of readers’ sanity but frankly one can see the various strands in the different electoral processes and the intended impartiality of each system. In spite of my previous sneering about the present British system, one can see the difficulties of deciding on a fairer process and the convenience and ease of First-Past-The- Post. If only it were fairer!
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| It is unlikely that Sir Keir Starmer will choose to reform the electoral system which has just given him a huge Parliamentary majority. It would be rather akin to turkeys voting for Christmas. |
with about the same number of seats. Zoe Williams. Guardian
Textile Connections is a new group of
textile artists with members from Suffolk, Norfolk and
Cambridgeshire. The group was formed by students who completed the
Creative Stitch Advanced Stitched Textiles course with tutor Mary
McIntosh and include Anna Ladds, Christine Speller, Mary McIntosh,
Nicola Wrigley, Rosemary Tyler, Sarah Moran and Virginia Ashberry.
This is their first major exhibition. The theme of ‘Textile Connections’ was chosen as the title for the exhibition with each member interpreting it in her own unique style. Within both individual artists’ and group exhibits, there is a wide range of stitched and quilted wall hangings and innovative 3D work. One features a series of 6″ squares, each with a touch of turquoise, and connected in some way. Another is a display of tactile ‘spheres’ with a wide range of themes which visitors are invited to handle and there is a wonderfully inventive series of textile ‘boxes’. Plus, of course, artistic tote bags.
| One of my mother's tapestries showing an 18th century Dutch interior |
Once seen as a creative backwater probably because of the mundane association with domestic chores and diurnal family demands, textile art is increasingly emerging as Real Art, as individually striking, artistic and gifted as that produced by pen, pencil, paint, pot. The Guildhall Exhibition bears that message multiplied many times in a variety of interesting forms though an observation by one exhibitor underlines the popular conception that textile art is “women’s work.”! She said that male visitors in Bury chiefly tended to be the captive husbands of those exhibiting.
| A soft, cloth 'vase' in the exhibition |
| One tapestry side of a screen containing two tapestries. Shows a female artist. |
ale visitors in Bury tended to be just the occasional captive husband of someone exhibiting.
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| Separation of Church and State. America. |
In Saturday’s Guardian, [29/06/2024] I noticed a short piece headed, “All Oklahoma schools ordered to teach Ten Commandments.” Apparently the Oklahoma Superintendent of Public Instruction has announced that all State schools are now required to teach the Bible and the Ten Commandments to students from Grades 5-12”, adding, rather grandly, that Bible study would enable “a complete understanding of western civilisation ... and an understanding of the basis of our legal system."
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| Ryan Walters, Oklahoma Superintendent |
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| Louisiana Governor signs Ten Commandments Law |
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| Approaching the subject from a different direction |
And interestingly, a spot of online research shows that modern developments in this field, are moving in the right direction. Nikki McGee, lead teacher on religious education for the Inspiration Trust, which runs 18 schools in Norfolk, said: “Collective worship is pretty much meaningless in schools that are not faith-based. The census results show it is archaic.” Many heads admit privately they no longer stick to this, preferring to run non-religious assemblies more relevant to their diverse student bodies. Mark Shepstone, assistant head at Bungay High School in Suffolk, said the requirement for collective worship is “simply ignored” in a lot of schools, and called for the government to drop it completely. “In the schools I have worked in
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| Bungay High School |
1960 John F. Kennedy, R.C. Presidential hopeful articulated the liberal ideal:
".... an ideal America where the separation of church and state is absolute."
2012 Rick Santorum, R.C. Presidential hopeful presented a more traditional view.
"The idea that the Church can have no influence .... in the operation of the state is
absolutely antithetical to the objectives and vision of our country."
As ever, religion divides.
Prison can both punish and reform As prison places become more difficult to find for an increasing number of criminals, it seems a good ide...